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Post by Meg on Feb 7, 2006 13:51:53 GMT -5
I think I'm going Emo peeps. This sucks.. Growl my life is going down the shit drain. My dog died, my mom was in the hospital, and I guess something made her got loopty and she got put in an Insane Auslym for a while(she's back now), my boyfriend broke up with me(jerk), my brother got put in jail(He's out now)...*sigh*
And my baby horse just died. He was kicked by one of the older horses, and his leg got broken.. And I had to shoot him..
Now. I've got a kid that has liked me from the beginning of the year, and everything I tell him I'm not going to date him, he gets mad and throws a punch at me.
Now he's wrotten me a note saying that he has cut himself over me and that if I don't go out with him, he's going to kill himself.. And I don't want to be the cause of his death.. so I'm seriously thinking about going out with him just cause.. But I'm terrified of him... Help?
I also need a hug...
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Post by zozo on Feb 7, 2006 14:06:30 GMT -5
Aww baby!! *hugglesandneverletsgo!*
I really don't know what advice to give to those unfortunate series of events. You're doggy and little foalie are playing ever so happy in heaven, and are looking over you with love. And as for the boy....I can really see the problem with the situation but you shouldn't go out with him by force, especially if you're scared! Maybe you can try and get him some help.
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Post by Meg on Feb 7, 2006 14:24:48 GMT -5
I've tried getting this kid help... He needs to go premently where my mother was...
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Post by Kindred Blue on Feb 8, 2006 13:16:24 GMT -5
Hey Meg kiddo, dont worry yourself over this. Life has its ups and downs, and perhaps yours is just stuck in the wrong mode right now, but things will sort themselves out, they always do. As for the animals - these things happen, people have to deal with it. I know from experience how difficult it is to lose an animal, as do many other people - but think, it could be worse. For two weeks after my cat died, I was still being told the vets were tying to save her. I was devastated when I found out the truth - she'd died two weeks before and I'd never even had the chance to say goodbye.
As for the guy, sounds a bit of a nutter to me. But, people often threaten to kill themselves, and I guarentee (sp) he wont do it. He'll be telling you this stuff to make you feel sorry for him, make you consider dating him - and hey look, its working. Think about it Meg, do you wanna date the obsessive, violent, depressive, murderous phsyco?
And finally. Heres a great big goddamn hug of warmth, good wishes, and Kinneh-love, because its certainly what you need.
-hugsquishdeathrevivelove-
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Post by zozo on Feb 8, 2006 13:44:42 GMT -5
There!! See, that's ^^ advice!! -sits and nods quietly in the background- Well, I tried, but basically listen to the clever people! ;D (You're ace Kinneh )
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Post by cherry on Feb 8, 2006 16:55:03 GMT -5
Of course she is, she's Kinneh ;D
When shit happens to me, I always remind myself that every happens for a reason.
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Post by Crow'sia on Feb 8, 2006 21:41:20 GMT -5
Kinneh gives very good advice... Wow. I feel so, unlevelheaded sometimes. Though I have to add in with the whole psycho obessive guy. People like this have some serious problems. Have you talked to him one and one and had a long discussion about what's going on with him? I wouldn't go out with him just to stop him from killing himself, even if it's an empty threat, if he's going to do it because of something as trivial as being rejected by a girl he'll probably do it sooner or later for some other reason anyway. Second, he sounds a bit abusive. And if you get into a relationship he probably wont change, and you could end up in the hospital, or dead; which is potentially worse. This is why I suggest to keep an eye on him. Unstable people do unstable things. Maybe he's bluffing, but that what if factor exists. I mean, who honestly knows. There are some pretty offthewall people out there. I'm so optimistic, no? There's no need to fret over him, just watch out and maybe try and get him help. I guess he goes to your school? If you have guidence there or councilers or whatever you want to call them, maybe offer to talk to them and sort this out even if it is a bit embarressing? Present the idea that you're willing to help him (cause you said you tried right?) and be there for him to him and that maybe peer mediation or something would be helpful? Talking just seems to solve alot of things, personally. And then sometimes not. However don't follow my advice unless you want to cause I'm not exactly good at dishing it out. I'm just paranoid. ^^ -hugglies- You really need some cookies. Or donuts. Or other unheathy sugary substance that makes everyone's insides melt. Thank goodness not literally, or we'd all be dead. Don't I pwn at joke-type humour things? -coughs- Maybe not. But I try. But really. Donuts make all the difference. Treat yourself, you deserve it Meg. Oh and unless you have a skateboard, don't fear being emo. Just don't buy one, you'll be on step closer. XDDD
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Post by Meg on Feb 9, 2006 13:08:36 GMT -5
Well..I haven't talked to him, seeing how he is a little bit creepy..And I'm terrified of him.. Oh..I'm eating Corn Nuts so...my insides are melting..(tehehe...I stole them from my little sidekick next to me...) And a Coca-Cola...(that I stole also)
No, he doesn't go to my school..he goes to the one next to my Academy..The two schools are kinda joined together, so I see him at lunch sometimes...I try to stay away...Freaky, creepy guys.. I always get the bad ones.. Well..I guess the guy that just broke up with me aint that bad..But my ex-boyfriend from last year is in jail now for beating the crap out of his girlfriend.. I 'm glad I got out of that relationship in a jiffy quick..
Oh..And I have a skateboard and roller blades...Maybe I am Emo on the inside..
My little sidekick wishes to add something in:
she could never be emo... just look at her....
Your nice.
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Post by cherry on Feb 10, 2006 5:29:24 GMT -5
;D Buy a big bar of chocolate (or two xp) and eat it all by your self listening to your favourite music.
Heaven.
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Post by Kindred Blue on Feb 11, 2006 13:33:04 GMT -5
Haha, what am I, well known for advice now? xD
I have to race in here - having a skateboard doesnt make yee emo, it makes you a skater xD
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Post by Meg on Feb 14, 2006 14:05:27 GMT -5
True! -giggles- I'm hyper because I have like five or six bodygaurds..
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